Saturday, March 28, 2015

I will give you my all...

I will give you my all...

Do we really understand what that means?

This has always been a simple phrase in my mind, one that makes sense in a relationship that is serious. It simply means that you will try and work hard everyday to be the person the significant other needs. You will be there for them, laugh with them, cry with them... you get the point...

But with age comes a bit more wisdom, and I finally understand what this means. And also with a bit of help from Silverjade for spiritual and life guidance.
It really does mean you will give them everything.
The first part of what I said is still true, you will be everything for that other person. But giving everything also has a dark side. It means they get all your bad habits too, all your foul mood days. You will obviously try to be as nice as possible at all times, but everyone has an off day now and then. So that means the significant other gets that too.

Now I really suggest that you only commit to this level in a serious relationship, commit to the point of giving the other person your all. If you are lucky, and so few of us are, you will find your soul mate. The one person that will accept who you are. Really accept all of who you are. If that happens, you don't need to be changing yourself to be the person the other needs. You can just be you. And that is good enough for the other.

And with this level of acceptance comes a deeper understanding of true love. A love where you are free. Free to be and do what you want, and in return letting the other person be who they are meant to be. And with this freedom comes a sense of belonging. a sense that you are both free but choose the other person to share your life with.

"I will give you my all" is a lot deeper than I originally thought, and hopefully some day all my readers can feel this feeling of giving all you have to another... the good, the bad... everything.

Sunday, February 8, 2015

There are no guarantees in life.

There are no guarantees in life.
This is the topic I would like to cover today. From past experience and present situations, I have come up with this conclusion, as many other have.
Life will always throw us curve balls. Most of us don't like it, because it changes the path we are on, and we have to make difficult decisions. We also then have to accept that we are not really in control of our destiny, and as humans, we rebel against that.

Read more
http://skwisgaar46.blogspot.com/2015/02/future-fluid.html


Friday, January 23, 2015

The Connector: Arthur Long Hypnotherapist Bryanston Johanneburg

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Sunday, November 9, 2014





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Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Hypnotherapy uses: DEPRESSION

Depression can be the most debilitating condition on the planet. 

The side effects can damage every part of a person’s life. Or 
destroy it.

Millions of people suffer depression for about as many reasons. So 
many pains and illnesses are a side effect of depression. Causing 
or adding to the problems.

The feelings of depression however simply come from depressing 
thoughts.

Hypnosis can help overcome the never ending circle of feelings, 
pain, illness, created from Depression.



We can help people through the very darkest of feelings.

South Africa alone has some 667 suicides a month and 0ver 200 
attempted suicides A DAY. Due to the overpowering effects of 
depression.

Trauma, Grief, Relationship problems. Financial worries, and even 
exam results can create what appears insurmountable darkness. A 
place so dark many  people then fear that giving up is the only 
solution to their despair.

Hypnosis has been used for thousands of years with great results. 
Only in recent years hypnosis is starting to gain acceptance by 
the medical profession.

It creates feelings of calmness which allow for calmer thought 
patterns. Hypnosis can create logical thinking overcoming 
snowballing effects of adding problems to previous problems for 
example.

When darkness and confusion is lessened  different thoughts 
come through. A person can think. When calmness is present, 
problems don’t appear as bad. Solutions to problems become 
clear.


Thursday, September 11, 2014

Art Long on Depression and Hypnosis

The habit of feeling bad then has another alternative that hypnosis offers. Hypnosis can enable a person to physically feel calm. A pleasant physical feeling that can in fact override the darkness and give a person control over themselves once more.
Hypnosis has been used for thousands of years with great results. Only in recent years hypnosis is starting to gain acceptance by the medical profession.
It creates feelings of calmness which allow for calmer thought patterns. Hypnosis can create logical thinking overcoming snowballing effects of adding problems to previous problems for example.
When darkness and confusion is lessened  different thoughts come through. A person can think. When calmness is present, problems don’t appear as bad. Solutions to problems become clear.